Redemption Newspaper | Hama – Participation of people with special needs in building society

Redemption Newspaper |  Hama – Participation of people with special needs in building society

We recognize the importance of caring for people with special needs, and the need to provide specific and limited needs that help them complete their lives and integrate them into society, after addressing the large amount of their intense emotions and their special need for a family, and their right to love, and to have a close partner at all times, who follows their lives with them as a companion for them, especially when we know that people with special needs constitute a large segment of any society, they can not be ignored at all, therefore we organized this article while retaining the explicit names at the request of the majority and out of respect for their feelings.

Some of their rights and society are ruthless

(FA) overcomes and achieves her own circumstances that the daughters of her generation could not achieve.She finished studying geography and had her own workplace.She started her talk: Love and marriage are a common right for every human being, for it is a need like food, drink and warmth, so satisfaction of passion is a necessity. In a person the disabled do not differ from the ordinary man except by the level of his disability, but our oriental society looks at a narrow scope, and relies on general and ordinary conditions, such as beauty of form, height, and color, and does not see what is in man. It is a special freedom and everyone must respect it, and any party’s sense of belonging depends on honesty and self-comfort. These are, of course, fruitful relationships and long life. As far as the marriage of people with disabilities is concerned, we for two things: that one of the parties is negative, and this leads to the rejection of the family and society, and it meets a lot of rejection, and if the case is settled, this marriage can not be spared from long tongues, with the possibility of the failure of a very nice relationship due to frivolous interference, and the other issue is the marriage of disabled people to each other, and I personally do not like it, because the formation of the family requires the assistance of one party to another, with my knowledge of areas Many of the two forms It has been proven successful, but it is my opinion in general, success is generally by overcoming the problems surrounding the disability, and such cases are supposed to v overcome, especially successful ones, to set an example for others.

Love and success are twins

(KG) works in the field of people with disabilities, and he is one of them. He said: The existence of a gap between people with disabilities and society is clear, and it is the result of a lack to trust in the ability of the disabled to form and care for a family, so there is no courage on the part of families to understand and accept the issue, and the initial response It is (your view is better), if it is for a man or a woman, and the question is, from which side is better, is it from a formal point of view or from an emotional point of view, if it is from an emotional point of view, then we love like others, perhaps better and more honestly, and if it is from a formal point of view, then it is fate It is forced on us, and do not forget that any human being is exposed to disability, by a traffic accident, for example, so it is love that defines, preserves and protects the relationship, in addition to the presence of healthy people, but life is unbearable with them.People with special needs in society from the beginning of their lives, to be educated together (with others) in kindergarten, primary school and all. stages of life, in this way we eliminate the gap that exists in the first place.And I say to you: We love better than others.

of us and their lives

(A. V) Abu Mahmoud, who has special needs, is a very hardworking person, formed a kind family and raised good children. He started his speech with determination and seriousness when he said to me:

The disabled person is the one who can not do his job, we are able to do anything and everything, and no obstacles can stand in our way, and I have made several attempts to get married and with the consent of the other party, but the strong rejection came from the parents until I could meet my current wife, who She was very happy, and her family blessed our desire, we started a simple life, but our understanding, determination and love helped us to achieve the best, and I lived through us to take full responsibility and it seems that I have succeeded, happiness lies in forming a successful family, and thank God things are good now, and I got married My oldest daughter is happy, so I am satisfied, and when I asked him if you would accept your daughter’s marriage to a disabled person, he did not hesitate to agree, if there was nothing dangerous for the marriage except disability, and he wanted to secure a job for the disabled because it solves part of the problem. basis for success, and of course my right to marry.

Competent

Siham Dawoud, a graduate of the Faculty of Psychology, says: We have recently noticed some interest in people with special needs, through a number of charities, and sometimes including them at public parties for various occasions, but the other thing is that the interest in them is through grids and a process (continuous), which means each according to his psychological and physical needs, and moves to the next stage based on the last reactions of the individual among them n until we ‘ reach a real beginning of life, on the other hand, it is necessary to find a place for them within all social strata, what the importance and how dealing with them and real integration that leads to excellent results, and here the role of the media is needed.

Editor

Your freedom ends when the freedom of others begins, and perhaps our basic problem is that we allow ourselves to rudely interfere with the lives of those around us, and our reprehensible attempt to force our opinions into their noses, with our constant sense for the correctness of our opinion, and the error of others. Sometimes unfair, he asks for values ​​and does not act accordingly. The individual justifies to himself what prevents him from others, and how nice it is to help, even with a word, to achieve a beautiful goal such as forming a family, especially with the presence of love that creates miracles , and as Plato said: Love cancels all boundaries.

Sherif El Yazigi

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